KINK CONSULTING

We can all benefit from support in understanding and exploring our kinky, sexual selves. There is still a fair amount of taboo and misinformation surrounding BDSM - understandably people have questions and need space to think through and work out what it means for them.

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With over a decade of personal and professional involvement in kink and BDSM across various roles and settings, I bring a sex-positive, trauma-informed, empathetic approach to making sense of these personal and sensitive topics and experiences. 

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These sessions are not prescriptive, and guided by you and what you wish to bring, unpack, or think about. You may have a specific questions or scenario in mind which you would like to discuss, or it could simply be having a chat about desires and needs with someone who understands and can hold space.

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I also work with professionals who are seeking guidance around Kink and BDSM topics, whether that is working with clients, intimacy co-ordination, or advice for other rope and kink professionals. I have experience working with and consulting for institutions and organisations such as Goldsmiths University and LSE, Netflix, The Metro and GQ Magazine.

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In the past, I wished for a professional to candidly discuss kinks, dynamics, and more – whilst there are many opportunities to explore kinks physically with a professional, the emotional/relational aspects are equally important to make space for. Let's talk kinks!

I can help with:

• Getting started in the kink scene

• Grasping consent in kink/BDSM contexts

• Negotiating kink dynamics

• Interpreting desires and boundaries

• Reflecting on experiences

• Practical safety and skill inquiries

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These sessions are offered virtually via zoom be in touch for rates, questions or click the link below to email me directly.

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I offer a 15 minute free chat to see if working together would be a good fit. See below to book in. 

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