TYING AND KINK SESSIONS
1:1 Private Rope Bondage and BDSM Sessions
Unique space for you to fully explore yourself in rope bondage and BDSM
Session Offerings:
- Floor-based, partial, and full suspension rope tying sessions. Needing inspiration or curious about whats possible? See my session ideas here
- Incorporating other elements of kink/BDSM into rope tying sessions
- You can view example session images here
- For FAQs about sessions, risks of Shibari, and more, click here
My Approach:
I bring extensive professional experience in kink and BDSM with a warm, non-judgmental approach. My goal is to create a private and personal space for self-exploration, pleasure, and possibility. Shibari can be sensual, challenging, erotic, relaxing, playful, and more. Together, we will negotiate a session that delves into these physical and psychological realms. It is a pleasure to hold space for these unique and intimate explorations - there is no 'set way' a session should look or unfold, it is different each time.
BDSM and Kink
Many ask if I engage in kink and BDSM during sessions, or is this 'just rope bondage'. Remember, Shibari/rope is the B (bondage) of BDSM! With a background as a Pro-Domme, I am familiar and comfortable exploring different dynamics and feelings within a session. Whilst my focus is now mostly on ropes, I am happy to discuss incorporating other elements of kink into sessions at my discretion. Please enquire via email for more information, I am open and appreciate transparency and directness with requests.
My Style:
I describe my style as warm, sensual, and grounding. I also enjoy venturing into more challenging styles of play for experienced players. We can discuss the 'why' and intention behind our session, which is often more important than the 'what' we are going to do, to explore what dynamic would work for you.
Session Details:
During the session, I can guide you in checking in with your body and discuss safety measures such as sensory and motor nerve checks. This is a great opportunity to explore at your own pace, with someone who understands and can guide you through the experience. As one of the few professionals in London offering this level of rope and suspension expertise, I can hold sessions in a fully equipped private dungeon space in South London.
Session Length and Debrief:
In addition to exploring your body in rope, we can debrief and discuss any experiences or insights that arise during the session. I recommend 2 hours to give space for checking in, negotiation and setting expectations, as well as space for debrief and settling back into yourself after tying. I do also offer extended sessions for those who would like more time.
Booking and Rates:
Contact me directly for rates. I am usually booking a minimum of 4-5 weeks in advance, though on occasion, I can accommodate short notice requests due to cancellations/last minute availability. See below for booking policies.
Booking Information:
When reaching out, please include information about your experience, desires (it's okay if you don't know!), any accessibility needs, and preferred dates/times. Please also share any questions you have.
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1.5 hours minimum for rope sessions
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All private rope experience sessions require dedicated time for negotiation - some of this may be done prior to meeting and can be discussed via email or phone
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Before all sessions I require a deposit – this is to reflect my planning time and so I can respect and hold the time slot for our session.
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I understand that sometimes unexpected changes and difficulties arise. If you are not able to attend our session, or if you need to cancel, we can reschedule if you give 48 hours notice.
I look forward to hearing from you!
Warmly,
Sophia
Session Ideas
If you're looking for inspiration or want to explore the possibilities, I’m here to help co-create a unique experience tailored just for you. Below are some ideas to spark your imagination. Feel free to reach out with anything that excites or resonates with you!
Mindful Introductions
Explore a session where time is taken to connect you more deeply with your desires, feelings, and sensations. We’ll begin with an open conversation about your curiosities and boundaries, then move slowly and intentionally through the session, creating a safe space for you to explore at your own pace. With a focus on care and mindfulness, this experience is both grounding and moving, ending with time for reflection and integration. Perfect for those seeking a gentle yet profound introduction. Set aside 2 hours
Sensory Deprivation and Rope
Immerse yourself in a session where the senses are heightened by taking some of them away. In this experience, you’ll be bound in a way that leaves you vulnerable yet secure, blindfolded, and perhaps even gagged, while the ropes do their work. With your vision removed, your other senses will come alive—every touch, every breath will feel more intense. This session is perfect for those who want to deepen their experience and explore the boundaries of their comfort zone in a safe and controlled environment. Plan for 2 hours.
Deeper - Erotic Ties
Dive into a world of heightened sensation, where the ropes become an extension of desire, expert hands guide you through a dance of touch and tension, tease and denial. The ropes will hold you while other forms of sensory play draw you deeper into a state of pure pleasure, or pain if you enjoy that too... This experience will leave you yearning for more, a blend of eroticism and surrender that will captivate you long after the session ends. A perfect exploration for those seeking sensual and erotic restriction. Allow 2 hours
The Struggle
Step into the thrilling role of the captive, my prey, vulnerable, exposed, and tightly bound. Feel the thrill of the struggle as you try to resist, only to realise that the ropes hold you fast, with no escape. As your wriggling tightens their grip, every breath reminds you of your helplessness... Is this the moment where your fantasies of total surrender become reality? You find yourself at the mercy of my whims. Will I be cruel, or will I be kind? 1.5 hours minimum.
Suspension Exploration
Ever wondered what it feels like to be suspended in mid-air, fully supported by expertly tied ropes? In this session, we’ll explore the exhilarating world of suspension bondage. You’ll experience the thrill of being lifted off the ground, feeling weightless and secure, as the ropes hold you in a perfectly balanced position. Whether you seek the rush of adrenaline or the calm of floating, this session is tailored to your comfort level. Perfect for those looking to push boundaries or simply experience something extraordinary. Plan for 2.5 hours.
Partnered Shibari
Elevate your connection in a session where you and your partner can explore the art of rope bondage together. This session is designed to deepen intimacy and trust as one of you is expertly tied while the other participates, observes, or even learns basic tying techniques. The experience can range from playful and sensual to intense and binding, depending on your shared desires. Whether you’re both new to Shibari or looking to explore it together in a new way, this session offers a unique opportunity to connect, communicate, and share an unforgettable experience. Allow 2-3 hours.