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Mixed Materials: Combining Rope Bondage with Leather, Latex, Chains, Cuffs and Pallet Wrap
Can You Combine Rope with Leather, Latex, and Pallet Wrap? Would it be okay to combine rope with some leather straps? Could you secure me...
Sep 18, 20253 min read


Opening To Pleasure - Queering Kink and Female Pleasure - A Conversation with Dunya Rising
Thank you to Dunya for this sweet and deep conversation covering pleasure from a female and queer lens, including power dynamics, exploring our own desires, trauma-informed kink, and debunking myths around sex https://open.spotify.com/episode/5RU9JzjtcO2DVjkcpfbWdU?autoplay=true
Jul 24, 20251 min read


My Interview With The OH Collective: How BDSM and Shibari Exploration Can Help You Connect With Your Partner on a Deeper Level
Enjoy this spotify podcast or watch the video youtube interview back in 2023 with the fabulous ladies at Oh Collective! How would you describe your intimate sexual self in three words? Fluid, daring, and playful. What is the most insane or adventurous thing you've done sexually? There are a few. I had sex on an airplane (yes, I'm part of the Mile High Club now!). I was also tied up outside. We went somewhere that we thought was secluded. "Someone" was tying "another person"
Jul 24, 20254 min read


No Partner? No Problem. A beginner’s guide to self-tying for the bondage curious
Curious about rope play but unpartnered? Learn about self tying and solo bondage for beginners...sensual, and empowering self led kink for your pleasure and embodiment
Jul 4, 20255 min read


How do I find my authentic dominant style?
Exploring expressions of Femdom and building confidence in your own unique erotic power... One of the questions I've been asked often during classes or private recently sessions is... “How do I find my real or authentic topping/domme style?” And honestly? For a long time I think it's very helpful to be honest that I didn’t! I didn’t explore or express dominance in a way that was truly aligned with my own desires or erotic sense of power. I leaned into what I thought I was sup
Apr 10, 20254 min read


How do I introduce kink to a partner?(especially for those shy, ashamed or nervous!)
So you’re curious about rope and kink.. OR... you know your kinky, have been since you can remember - but maybe it's been a deeply...
Apr 3, 20256 min read


Exploring rope bondage: A beginner’s guide to shibari...
All the curiosity arises when people first see shibari.... Does it hurt? Is it normal to be in to this? Is it different to normal...
Dec 13, 20248 min read


Visiting a professional dominatrix in London? A "how to" guide for subs seeking a session!
What to expect when first contacting or planning to visit a professional Dominatrix in London... Written with the help of my very own...
Oct 15, 20245 min read


So what happens now.... is rope bondage about sex?
I'm often asked, “So what happens after you're tied up? Do you have sex once someone is suspended? What comes next?” Well....the answer...
Oct 10, 20243 min read


Shibari as therapy? My honest thoughts
Shibari is a kink deeply rooted in BDSM culture, and understanding this context is crucial for anyone interested in learning about rope bond
Oct 9, 20243 min read
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